Sunday, December 19, 2010

ALERT: Jackspeak

Jack: "I had a tissue today at school and I touched my loose tooth with it and there was actually blood on it."


Brett: "Can you grab it with two fingers and wiggle it that way?"


Me: "Yeah, you could just wiggle it and pull it at the same time."


Brett: "Yeah. Could you do that?"


Me: "That sounds like it would be easy."


Brett: "Yeah, you should do it."


Me: "Yeah, you should give it a try."


Brett: "Yeah, try it Jacky."


Me: "Just try it and see what happens."


Brett: "Yeah."


Jack: "Can we please stop talking about it? Because all this talking is reminding my tooth to hurt."


 



Sunday, December 12, 2010

A WildCards tutorial: Loopy-Loo Holiday Garland

When I left home for college, my mom gave me a box of old holiday decorations. A few ornaments, some Santa knick-knacks, and a charming strand of Christmas-tree garland made from bright red yarn. The garland was handmade by my mom. She was in college herself when she made it. As I rummaged through the box, she explained how she had made the garland all those years ago.

Although a competent sewist, my mom never had a passion for it. (Her passion is abstract painting. Rebel.) So I was happy to inherit something sewn by her hand, as it was quite rare. And every year since I received the garland, it’s been on my Christmas tree. This year it has accented some of our favorite ornaments that we’ve collected over the years…


Loopy-Loo-1Our honeymoon ornament.

Loopy-Loo-2Our “we used to live in Washington, and it was cool” ornament.

Loopy-Loo-3And our first “Baby’s first Christmas” ornament.


But the past four years? The garland has been getting harder and harder to drape. I’ve been draping the garland around the tree to form the illusion of one continuous strand. But in reality, it looks more like this:


Loopy-Loo-4 The garland has broken into so many pieces I can’t even count them anymore. So this year, I decided to try my hand at sewing a new garland. I wasn’t sure what I would end up with, but I remembered the simple technique that mom shared with me.


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Hmm. Things went better than I expected. I like how this new, vintage-vibe garland turned out! I felt confident enough about it, even, that I thought I could teach someone else how to do it. So holy happy holidays, here we go!

Loopy-Loo Holiday Garland Tutorial

Here’s what you need:
Loopy-Loo-6Poster board. A pen or pencil. An acrylic ruler. A rotary cutter with a blade for paper only and a rotary mat (or scissors). Tape. Thread to match your yarn. And yarn.


Note: You do not need ONE POUND of yarn. One skein is plenty for a garland that will wrap and drape and then wrap some more around your tree. Or your mantle. Or your door. Or wherever you plan to drape and wrap.


One more note: When it comes to yarn and knitting, I love using natural fibers. But in this case, I suggest using acrylic yarn. Natural fibers tend to break more easily, and we want garland that will last at least as long as my mom's garland did. That would be close to 40 years.


Wow. Yeah, just did the math. That is freakin' old garland!


Here’s what you do:
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Using your ruler, draw lines parallel to the short edge of the poster board, spacing them 1 3/4" apart.


Loopy-Loo-8Cut the poster board into strips, following the drawn lines.


Note: For me, each strip yielded about three feet of garland. So do the math—don’t do like I did and cut up the entire posterboard. It’s unlikely you’ll need it. I can’t imagine anyone would want that much garland for anything, ever.


Loopy-Loo-9Tape the yarn to one short end of a poster board strip.


Loopy-Loo-10Begin wrapping the yarn around the strip.

You can wrap the yarn one of two ways: 1) Let your right hand wrap the yarn while your left hand holds the paper steady; or 2) Let your right hand hold the yarn steady while your left hand turns the strip around and around. (Switch those lefts and rights around for lefties.) I did a little bit of both.


Loopy-Loo-11The strip should look something like this when you’re done. Leave 1" to 1 1/2" at the end of your strip unwrapped. Do not cut the yarn.


Loopy-Loo-12Sew along the center of the poster board strip using a very short straight stitch—as short as you can get without sewing in place. Here we are at the beginning of the strip…


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...and here we are at the end. Backstitch well at the beginning and end.


Loopy-Loo-14Tape a second strip to the first strip.


Loopy-Loo-15Begin wrapping the yarn again.

Wrap the yarn to cover the second strip within 1" to 1 1/2" from the edge. When you are done wrapping, tape the yarn to the strip to prevent unraveling. Sew along the center of the second strip, making sure to backstitch over your previous stitching when you begin.

Now you have this long, gangly, double strip of posterboard. Time to take out the paper! You can do this one of two ways:

1) Cut the yarn along the long edges of the strip; then gently pull the paper away from the center seam. I’m guessing this is easier than what I did (and it’s what my mom did too).

2) Keep the loops in the yarn by ripping and wiggling the paper strips out of the loops a little bit at a time. More time consuming for sure, but I like the effect. Here’s how I did the ripping and wiggling:

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Fold the strip in half lengthwise along the seam to further perforate the paper.


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Fold it in the other direction, too.


Loopy-Loo-18Tear the paper to the sewn seam at 1" to 2" intervals. Pull a few loops off the edges of the paper so you can get a good grasp on it.


Loopy-Loo-19Gently wriggle the paper out.


Loopy-Loo-20After lots of wriggling, it will start to look like this.

Note: You can remove the paper from the yarn almost up to the point where the second strip ends. But leave a couple inches of the sewn yarn and paper intact; you’ll need it to tape, wrap, and sew the next length of garland.

Continue taping, wrapping, and sewing until you have the length of garland you want. I used four strips and it made about 12 feet of garland.

I had planned to set up some fun shots of the garland in holiday action, but GOSH DANG IT if my boys couldn’t keep their mitts out of the bowl ‘o beads:

Loopy-Loo-21Big mitts.


Loopy-Loo-22Little mitts.

Love those mitts.

And also, beads are messy.

I would love to make my mom’s bits of garland into something new. Any ideas? I’ll be thinking…


Loopy-Loo-23 Happy holidays, crafties!



Friday, December 3, 2010

ALERT: Jackspeak

Jack: "Can you please get me and Charlie some apple juice and a snack?"


Me: "Yeah, but I need to finish what I'm doing here first. Come remind me in 10 minutes, okay?"


"Okay, but I don't know what 10 minutes is. Come tell me when it's 10 minutes and then I'll remind you."



Tuesday, November 23, 2010

ALERT: Jackspeak

Don't bother trying to hide that last fun-size Snickers bar from Halloween for yourself. Not with little boys around.


Jack: "Mom, I can smell that candy bar in your pocket."



Saturday, November 20, 2010

Maw Jones and the Deep Scrap Bag

A few weeks ago, an assisted-living center down the street from our home hosted a big yard sale. I noticed it on the drive home from grocery shopping, which had been preceded by a hectic morning of breakfast making, kitchen cleaning, floor mopping, living-room straightening, toy-putting-awaying, and Diet-Coke drive-thruing. I still had more than a day's worth of tasks to complete, with only a half day to complete them. But I parked the car, grabbed the boys, and made the trek down the block for some treasure hunting.


The boys found a spread of toys on a blanket. I spotted a cardboard box full of folded fabrics. I bent down and started rummaging through them. At the bottom of the box, underneath some flats of solid-colored yardage, I found this:


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A summer quilt (only two layers). Some machine stitching, some hand stitching. Lots of shirting fabrics. A few imperfections, but not many. It looked vintage. It looked pristine. It looked fantastic.


I looked for a price tag. Nothing. I looked around. I expected someone to lock eyes with me and shout, "Hey! I didn't mean to put that in there! Give it back!" But no one did. I tucked the quilt under my arm and continued browsing.


When the three of us were done with our search, we had treasured up a toy car for Jack, a Tickle Me Elmo for Charlie, and a big baggie full of vintage buttons for me. And the quilt.


I assumed things weren't going to go smoothly at the cash box. The quilt didn't have a price tag. It was probably put in that cardboard box by mistake. Wasn't it? Had to be, I thought as I walked toward a rickety card table to pay. The original owner will want to keep this, I thought. No one would give this up at a yard sale on purpose. Yes, back to the owner. That would be best.


I approached the table and lay our items down. "We'll take these... and there was this quilt, from a box over there," I said to the woman at the table. She picked up the folded quilt. A voice from behind her said, "Oh, I didn't know that was out there." I looked over the woman's shoulder to see a small, elderly woman in a wheelchair, parked on the grass. She smiled. "That's from Maw Jones."


I walked around the card table toward the elderly woman. "It's just wonderful," I told her. "I can't imagine you would want to sell it."


"Do you like quilts?" she asked me.


"Oh my gosh, yes. I've made quite a few myself."


"That's wonderful," she said. "I have two daughters who just don't like that kind of thing--sewing and such. If I gave them that old quilt, they wouldn't know what to do with it. So, yes. You just take it."


"What? Oh, I don't..."


"Yes, now, you just take it. I can't put a price on it and I don't have anyone I know that would appreciate it like you would."


I didn't know what to say. But I did know that I didn't want to say no.


"Well, can you tell me about it? Do you know when it was made?"


This wonderful little woman told me everything she knew about the quilt; I kept her going with question after question. She thought the quilt had been made in the 1920s (gasp!) by her grandmother, who the family called Maw Jones. She said the quilt was made in Pennsylvania, then it moved to Arizona, then here to Utah. At some point she inherited it from her grandmother, a smart, sassy woman with seven children and no husband.


"Wow. How'd she find the time to make quilts?" I asked her.


"It took her a long time," the woman said.


After some conversation about the neighborhood we share, I stumbled over a series of heartfelt but awkward thank-you's, and then I gave her a hug. I told her I would take good care of Maw Jones's quilt, and that I would write down the details of her story, and that I wouldn't let my boys touch it until they were older (she had just met my lively little ones, you know). I told her I would care for it like it had been made in my own family.


I brought Maw Jones's quilt home. I smoothed out the quilt and examined each block. I daydreamed about Maw Jones and her stitches, and her seven children. Then, out of curiousity, I emailed my friend Valerie (of Cookie's Creations fame), a licensed quilt appraiser, and asked her if she would take a look at it.


After close inspection, Valerie told me a few things about Maw Jones's quilt.


Mawjones2Some of these shirting fabrics are certainly from the 1920s;
others, as they might contain polyester, may be from as late as the 1950s.


Mawjones3For a quilt from this era, it really is in great condition.


Mawjones4There's only one spot where the quilt has been mended,
along a hand-stitched seam that had probably unraveled over time.


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This type of doubled dimensional border is unusual, and really super cool.
(Well, the super-cool part is just me sayin'...)


Mawjones6We can't be sure who wrote this on the back in permanent marker; Maw Jones
or someone who simply wanted to remember that Maw Jones made it. 


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Valerie was miffed by this strange little stamp on the back. She thought
it might be feedsack material but later decided that it wasn't,
because of the length and width of the fabric on the back.


Valerie described the quilt as possibly being a "deep scrap bag" quilt. The maker had saved fabrics for years and years. When she finally decided to put a quilt together, she had a stash that spanned decades.


Ah. Seven children. No husband. A deep scrap bag. Makes sense to me.


What an experience. I am still shocked that the quilt is mine. I'm wondering where the quilt should stay in our home. I want her safely on display. Her blue and cream hues bring calm to our at-times chaotic days. The pinstripes in her sashing and borders are sassy and smart, like I imagine Maw Jones was. But mostly, the story behind the quilt whispers to me. It says to be mindful. In time, all things get done. It reminds me of a quote I've always loved, from Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu:


"Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished."


I guess what I'm trying to say, I'm saying to myself. Stop rushing about, Jenny. In time, everything will get done.


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Wednesday, November 10, 2010

ALERT: Jackspeak

Jack: "But I really really REALLY want a lego Batman!"


Me: "I know. But it's $25.00 for a two-inch high Batman. I just can't spend that much on something like that right now. Maybe you can save up your allowance."


"Yeah..."


"And if you do save up $25.00, you might even decide you want something else even more, you know? Something that's maybe better than a two-inch high Batman. Maybe the Batman won't be so important to you anymore."


"Hey, look! This has been important to me from yesterday to today!"

"Exactly."



Monday, November 8, 2010

Thrifted!: Joy, laughter, tears. All secondhand.

I go thrifting at least once a week, list in hand. Sometimes I find what I need. Sometimes not. Either way, I always browse through the entire store before making my exit. 'Cause you never, never know what you might find.


Case in point. THIS:


Sunflowers1Savers, Layton, Utah, $8.00.


I wasn't looking for a hand-crocheted throw featuring GIANT YELLOW SUNFLOWERS. But I found one. It's loud. It's gregarious. It's merry. It's a bit giggle-inducing. Did I mention it's loud? And now it's mine. Thank you, person who threw out this throw. Because now this amazing ode to joy is in my living room, ode-ing away.

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Case in point. THIS:


Litebrite1Deseret Industries, Layton, Utah, $5.00.


I couldn't help but notice this lamp on a rolling rack of items that hadn't even been shelved yet. I laughed out loud. It instantly took me back to my childhood, striking up memories of me plugging in Lite-Brite pieces with my little brother. My little brother came to visit a couple weeks back with his wife and new daughter. I purposely set the lamp at his bedside. I do believe he thought it was AWESOME, too.

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Case in point. THIS:


Mothers1Deseret Industries, Layton, Utah, $0.75.


I like to search for books for the boys at the thrift store, and this particular store has a large wall dedicated to children's books. I am talking THOUSANDS of children's books to sift through. Charlie was with me during this shopping visit, and I was able to browse at length as he sat on the floor and perused books on the bottom shelf. I found this dinosaur book and this discussion starter about faith for Jack, and this bedtime tale for Charlie. Then I spied a large, vintage-looking hardcover book. The spine read, What Do Mothers Do? I slid the book off the shelf and opened it to the copyright page. 1966. Yikes, thought the feminist in me. This should be interesting. But like, not in a good way.


 And then I read the simple text:


Just what do mothers do? You know.
Your mother and all mothers are, oh, so
busy taking good care of their children.

They get us up in the morning,
serve our breakfasts,
play with us,
and help us learn to walk and talk.
Mothers teach us to be careful crossing streets,
keep our homes clean and cozy,
and show us how to save.
Mothers take us on picnics,
and teach us good manners.
We always wash before meals,
and share with each other.
Mothers take us swimming,
guard us from danger,
and like to see us happy.
They show us how to do tricks,
have parties for us,
answer our questions,
and take us riding.
Mothers also give us baths,
tell us stories,
sing to us,
and tuck us in bed. But--
what do mothers do that's
best of all? They love
their children very much!


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In the children's book aisle at the thrift store, Charlie at my feet busy covering himself in Elmo books, I cried. Because, you know. That's what mothers do.


Joy. Laughter. Tears. Worth every penny. Hit your local thrift store soon; you never know when you may find your own ode to joy.

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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

ALERT: Charlietalk

Potty learning has gone remarkably well with Charlie. We've been out of diapers for two months. The Potty Book for Girls has been an instrumental part of Charlie's success. Yes, it's about a girl, but it's an adorable rhyming story that Charlie asked us to read to him every day for months. And often, when we reached this page, he had an interesting editorial comment to make.


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Me: "It's time to go with Mom and Dad to buy new underwear. Can you guess who gets to choose that very special pair?"


Charlie: "Oooh! I yuv pears. They are so yummy and juicy. I yuv those pears!"


 



Thursday, September 2, 2010

ALERT: Jackspeak

Jack: "Mom, I'm black-toast intolerant."


Me: "You are?"


"Yeah. What does black-toast intolerant mean, anyway?"


"I'm not quite sure. But I wouldn't tolerate it, either."



Monday, August 23, 2010

ALERT: Charlietalk

Charlie and I are driving along the freeway, running a morning errand. Suddenly, he spots something on the side of the road.

Charlie: "Mom, yook!"

Me: "What is it?"

"Oooh! It's yions! Yions! Yions!"

My heart falls into my stomach for brief moment. I turn my head to see what he sees. Relieved, I turn my attention back to the road.

"Those are cows, Charlie."

"Oh, yeah. Cows. Dose are cows!"



Sunday, August 8, 2010

Six years.

Brett and I celebrated our ten-year wedding anniversary last week. After finding an ancient but still perfectly usable gift card while cleaning out the cabinets above the fridge, we dropped the boys off at Aunt Nini's house and headed to a snazzy restaurant in Salt Lake City. We had a great waiter, great food, and tasty Boat Drinks (what we call any fruity drink that reminds us of our Jamaican honeymoon). During dinner, I asked Brett what were some of his favorite moments, looking back on these ten years. He thought a moment or two, and then tears welled behind his glasses.

"Seeing Jacky for the first time."

My tears followed. "Yeah, that was a good one," I said.

That moment came to us six years ago. Now our Jacky is six years old. 

Jack, Daddy and I have been parents for six years now. Six. But we haven't been your average, ordinary parents. Because we've been the parents of you. And that has made us into something special. Extraordinary.

The three of us, we've been through a lot:


Jack1 Through your first few months... us trying to figure it all out (and getting
in naps with the babe, as we'd read you should do). And trying to figure out
cloth diapering, too. (Look at that huge diaper on your teeny baby body!) Sorry about that. We're old hat at it now.


Jack2 Through... SLEEP. You cried every night for three and a half months straight. For two to four hours each night. You terrified me. Your dad and I took turns walking (and walking, and walking) you to loud LOUD music until you finally succumbed. My sister, your Aunt Laurie, told me that one day you would skip a night of crying. And that would happen more and more often. She was right. Oh thank you, Aunt Laurie. Thank you for telling me that. It's what got me through.


Jack3
Through toddlerhood. And the advent of your fascination with all things dress up...


Jack6 (including marker lids)


Jack7


Jack8 (and pudding)


Jack4...and all things Super.

Jack9 Through preschool...

... and through a monumental advent. A brother.
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Jack11


Jack12
And finally, through your past year
. Your kindergarten year. Which was...


Jack13
wild


Jack14 wonderful


Jack15 wacky


Jack16
whimsical


Jack17
a little warped


Jack18 and sometimes, just plain weird.

Through. Through six years of our lives, with you. Sometimes I wish I'd had you earlier. At 30, at 28, at 26. I wish we hadn't waited so long. Because then I could spend more of my life with you. But that wish-come-true runs the risk of our story changing. And I love our story. The story of me and you. The story of our little family of four.

Through our lives, with you. I like that.


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On to year seven.